Should i call her sweetheart

Whenever I do use such a term, like sweetheart, I mean to tell her that she holds a special place within my mind or my heart. If I use that one specifically, then you can pretty much bank on me having feelings for her. Ak1rA Xper 1. Tricky question. Most of the time we use that term to show erotic affection. But you can validate the nature of his affection from other gestures and body language.

MajorEasy opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Doesn't mean much Better than calling her "hey you" I use sweetheart on almost all women I'm not too familiar with Paradoxicfox Xper 4. I've been told Im a flirt, but I dont really do it on purpose.

Its part of my nature and for the most part Im just a friendly, relatable lady. I don't know Depends on who the person using it is Some may use it to just sound courteous and polite While some use it to express love Logorithim Master.

Just being friendly, basically saying that she is nice. LittleSally opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Mostly condescension. Unless they're together and the tone is loving. BellePepper 1. The number of syllables? Either way it sounds like you still like one another. Loveyoursmile Xper 6. Like million times , its just friendly way to talk to cheer them up to joke.

Domingo 84 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I never called a female sweetheart before. It doesn't sound right when I say it. OlderAndWiser 3. What do you think it means when a guy calls a girl "sweetheart? BertMacklinFBI 4. JBaur Xper 2. And I'm sick of it. To clarify, these men are not necessarily calling me these nicknames in an effort to sexualize me — at least, not overtly.

Much like other phrases we might take back as women like the c-word, or "bitch" , this one simply carries a more loaded meaning when it's spoken by men. Here's why. These pet names are essentially a socially acceptable way of saying " Aw, look at you, you cute little female thing.

It matters what these men see in us in this case, someone young and cute , instead of what we see in ourselves. If he only calls you sweetheart and he changes his body language in a positive way around you then it would be likely that he is attracted to you.

If he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would give a number of other clues in his body language which could include things such as:. Even if he does call other women sweetheart he might say it to you for a different reason so you should consider the body language that he shows around you to get a better idea of why he does it. If he is your friend and he only says it to you then it could be the case that he wants to be more than just friends with you.

If that is why he called you sweetheart then it would be likely that he would show signs of being attracted to you in his body language but you might not have noticed them. If he said it when you were making a suggestion or he said it in a sarcastic way to you then it would be likely that he was being condescending. It would likely be apparent that he was being condescending based on the context of how he said it and the tone that he said it with.

If he was being condescending then it would be likely that he would show signs of it in his body language which could include:. This would be more likely if he is your boyfriend and he would probably show numerous signs of attraction when he is with you.

If that is why he said it then it would be likely that he would show signs of being attracted to you in his body language. If that is why he said it then you would probably have been talking about something that made you feel sad and you might have been showing signs of being sad.

It could still be that he did it for a different reason. If he did then he would call you sweetheart at other times as well and likely show other clues in his body language. The timing and location of when he called you sweetheart would likely be a useful thing to consider. If he called you sweetheart when you were both alone together then it would be more likely that he said it because he is attracted to you and you should consider the body language that he was showing.

If he said it in front of other people then it would be more likely that he either called you sweetheart because he was being condescending or because he naturally says it to women. You should consider whether or not he shows positive or negative signs around you to get a better understanding.